OILS AND ROMANCE, spice things up - Earths Magic Essentials


If you are looking to increase the romance and spice things up between the sheets, you will want to read this blog. Oils and Romance.

I’ll be sharing secrets and tips to help you boost your libido along with fun recipes to increase the experience!

Low Libido

Low libido in romance and oils

It’s no secret that many of us suffer from the common sexual dysfunction of low libido. I know! It sucks! There is nothing worse than your partner being in the mood and you having NO desire to be touched. It’s embarrassing and can often make you feel worse because you are letting your partner down. So let’s change that!

Here are a few reasons your libido could be lacking.

– Birth control pills.

– Menopause.

– Aging.

– Family problems and stress.

– Depression and anxiety.

– Trauma in your past.

It’s time to deepen your connection with your partner by having an open and honest conversation about where you stand and what may be the cause. Then, I suggest getting rest and reaching for those oils to decrease any occasional stress so you can GET YOUR MOJO BACK!

I know this is rare, but if you need to DECREASE your sex drive to meet your partner in the middle, take a few sniffs of your Marjoram oil.

Oils and Romance – Set The Mood

set the mood

For women, sex starts before we even get into the bedroom. Doing things throughout the day to help get you in the mindset can be just what you need to turn up the heat later.

PENCIL IT IN – When your schedule is crazy busy, sometimes you have to pencil in those important meetings between the sheets.

PUT ON SEXY PANTIES – If you look sexy, you will feel sexy.

SEND A FLIRTY TEXT – I’m not saying send anything you wouldn’t want the world to see (I mean once things are out there, they are out there, lol).

A simple “Can’t wait to spend an evening alone” or “Thinking about your lips on mine” might be just enough to get the wheels turning on the other end.


Use Orange, Sensation, or Geranium to get you in the mood. Apply topically or diffuse.

– Orange – Brings joy to the heart, peace, and happiness to the mind.

– Sensation – Encourage feelings of love and affection when diffused.

– Geranium – May help ease nervous tension and lowers the defenses that may be preventing you from being open and receptive to new ideas.

Pre Party Prep For The Ladies

Pre party prep, romance and oils

No one likes to get between the sheets if they don’t feel clean. If you had a long day, take a few whiffs of Stress Away and hop in a hot shower.

YL has men’s and women’s products.

One of our favs is the Mirah Shave Oil. OH, MY WORD! It reduces razor drag, bumps, and nicks. It’s also a great aftershave.

Here are some favorite bath gels for romance:

– Sensation Bath & Shower Gel – 8 oz

– Dragon Time Bath & Shower Gel – 8 oz

– Make your own special scent with the unscented Bath & Shower Gel Base and your favorite oils.

Get Glammed Up

Get Glammed up

When you shower, do your hair, put on makeup, and put on fancy clothes, you instantly FEEL more attractive. When you feel more attractive, you naturally are more open to being romantic.

If you are going to spend the time to get PURDY, do it with clean, safe products.

Harmful chemicals found in common beauty products can cause problems with your skin, general health, and your hormones. DON’T MESS WITH YOUR HORMONES!!!!

Do yourself a favor and make the switch to Young Living skin care and Savvy Minerals Makeup products.

They contain NO harmful products and actually contain ingredients that are beneficial to your skin.

Happy Hormones

Happy Hormones

Speaking of hormones…

Progesterone is a hormone in the body that impacts your libido. You NEED progesterone to have a libido.

Progessence Plus serum, also referred to as PP or P+, contains USP-grade progesterone (from wild yam extract) and was developed by a doctor who specializes in women’s health. It is formulated specifically for women, and ideal for women over 30 that want to feel more relaxed and balanced.

Progessence Plus also makes a lovely perfume. Apply one drop to your wrists every night. After a week or two, you can apply one drop to wrists morning and night.

Note: If you’re pregnant, you don’t really need this one. So save yourself the money and restart it when you have that beautiful baby.

More Hormones

More hormones in romance and oils

An important sex hormone called Estradiol (the predominant estrogen throughout a woman’s body in her reproductive years) is produced in the ovaries. Estradiol is required for reproductive and sexual function. Ok, I won’t bore you with the pathophysiology.

The most important takeaway is that a healthy reproductive system makes a girl happy.

Lady Sclareol is an oil blend created especially for women to enhance the feminine nature and provide a relaxing experience when diffused.

SclarEssence supports overall wellness with the properties of pure essential oils, including Clary Sage and Fennel.

Use these two oils in your daily regimen. Apply to female reproductive vita flex points or over your lower abdomen daily.

These blends are perfectly fine if you’re hoping these love sessions lead to a bouncing baby, but I would avoid them during pregnancy as they both contain Clary Sage which is typically on “Oils to avoid during pregnancy” lists.

Oils That Get You In The Mood

Oils that get you in the mood

Tired? – Apply ENDOFLEX daily over your adrenal glands (mid back) and thyroid (throat) or ingest a few drops of Endoflex Vitality in water to support your endocrine system.

Grumpy? – Use DRAGON TIME. Dragon Time was created JUST for that time of the month. At least, that’s what I am telling myself. You know…. to help tame your dragon. Apply to wrists before and during your cycle as needed or put it in the diffuser or in an Epsom salt bath. Your partner (and everyone around you) will thank you.

Want to feel relaxed and aroused? – Use YLANG YLANG. A single oil found in Joy and Sensation blends, two other favorites for making you feel happy and help you get in the mood.

Need a little more help getting in the mood? – Use CLARY SAGE diluted on or around the lady parts.

CAUTION: Do not use Clary Sage if you’re pregnant. Save it to use during delivery!

Any Men In Here?

any men in here?

Don’t worry ladies, this is where we get your guys on board. Oils and romance is not just for woman. Members always ask, “How do you get husbands on board with oils?” I tell them there are two ways to get your guy on-board. Bring oils into the bedroom or bring home a paycheck by sharing your oils. “Men never say no to more sex and more money.” haha

Let’s talk about some oils that spruce him up, get the blood pumping, and help him stand tall and proud. If you know what I mean. *wink wink*

GOLDENROD – Go ahead, get the schoolgirl giggles out. I mean is this name perfect or what? I think the name really says it all. If you’re looking for a Golden Rod, then this oil should go in your Essential Rewards order.

Ok so how do you use this one? – Typically, use it in a love potion. Use on his inner thighs and work your way up. Pretty soon you will have a goldenrod on your hands, or in your hands.

IDAHO BLUE SPRUCE – This oil isn’t a SPRUCE for nothing. It totally spruces things up. This oil helps your man STAND at ATTENTION. I’m totally stealing that from Lucy Libido. Her book, Lucy Libido, is awesome by the way and I highly recommend it if you want to dive even deeper into this topic. This oil really makes it a win-win for all. Who says no to firmer longer? He feels totally macho and you get to enjoy it all a little longer.

Use it with coconut oil as a lubricant or add it to your Tingle Massage oil for a little extra cooling for you.

Incorporate during pre-game time with a little play message. If he isn’t a fan of the floral scents then this 20 minutes before go time, in the diffuser, is perfect.

Tell your guy not to worry, he won’t struggle with standing at attention long after the act is done. God made these oils and he knows when enough is enough.

NUTMEG – Let’s get the circulation going and the blood pumping y’all! Love making is a great cardio workout. Pair these two together and you will be rocking and rolling.

Dilute this one a lot before you apply it to the skin. We are trying to make positive memories not clips for a bloopers reel. Your buddies would be the only ones laughing.

Your Shutran Man

Shutran for men

Have you ever heard of pheromones? Pheromones are behavior-altering agents. They are unlike most other hormones. They are ectohormones – which means they act outside the body of the individual that is secreting them and impact the behavior of ANOTHER individual and can induce activity such as sexual arousal.

SAY WHAT? Basically, you can lure someone with your scent and get them aroused for the ultimate flirtation.

The chemical constituents in Shutran were made for a man to wear to attract a woman! Men, you can wear it every day like cologne to boost your confidence or put it on your forearms, shaft, and inner thighs.

Some like it scruffy and some like it silky. Hey, I don’t judge if it’s up top or down low. Regardless of where you use it, use Shutran Shave Cream.

Oils That Don’t Care What Gender You Are

oiils that don't care what gender you are

– Valor

– Hong Kuai

Liquid courage straight from plants!

Valor, when diffused and applied to wrists and ears, will bring about confidence like no other.

Hong Kuai has the highest sesquiterpene content of any Young Living essential oil, which means tiny particles can stimulate your brain!  If you want to feel inspired to take action, this is your go-to oil for the diffuser.

COOL FACT: Hong Kuai trees are ancient cypress trees that grow high in the mountains of Taiwan. They can grow to enormous sizes and live up to two millennia. Hong Kuai wood has long been used in the building of temples, royal palaces, and baths because of its beautiful look, wonderful smell, and it’s natural properties that allow the wood to last for hundreds of years.

A Few Diffuser Recipes To Get you Strutting Your Stuff.

OH, Baby, I’m Ready. Oils and Romance lets go…

– 4 drops Sensation

– 2 drops Hong Kuai

– 2 drops Lavender

Confident Breeze

– 5 drops Valor

– 3 drops Hong Kuai

Hey Mister

Mister was originally formulated for him to help balance the male energies.

Guys, if you need a little boost in the libido department, then this one is a must-have for you. Apply this oil to your ankles and front and back pubic bones (pelvic area).

However, a little side note, ladies, if you ever get that instant feeling of needing to rip off your top because it feels like a heat wave just hit you, this one can be great for you to use on a daily basis.

Thank You

Thank you so much for reading this Oils and Romance blog. I hope you found some value and learned a little more about supporting your hormones and getting some fun ideas to spice things up in the bedroom.

These products CHANGE LIVES!

Here are more blog posts you may be interested in – “Lavender Essential Oil” or “All Things Thieves